I will start this a different way today. I am very upset at the way victims are treated both by hospital and by Drs Surgerys. I thought things were finally getting better here in Scotland and victims were going to be treated better but I was wrong. I am trying to do the very best I can do to help my 89 year old mother. On New Years Eve she fell and injured her leg requiring her to attend the Plastic Surgery Nurse Lead Clinc and was treated My Tanya a nurse who formally worked at a Drs Surgery as a treatment room nurse. I had attended most appointments with my mum then mum got transferred to our Drs Surgery nurse at the treatment room
. On our return to Plastic Surgery after a visit to our nurse we were told that the wrong dressings had been put on at the surgery and Tanya told me the name and size of dressings that were to be applied and asked me to order them from the G.P which is what I did. I had collected them gone out on my return they had been moved we could not find them. I phoned Tanya she said I had stolen them and not to attend my mums next appointment with her.
The bitch waited until an elderly lady was on her own and phoned Social Services on us who visited and had no concerns. Had she allowed me to attend I would have pointed out that the Drs treatment room nurse had dressed the leg on the Thursday by Friday night it had fallen off and I took her to A&E. That was why the dressing was different.
last week after me attending my Drs Surgery with my mum I have been told again not to attend with my mum as I make the nurse feel uneasy. Oh and because I have a latex allergies and there is latex in the room. I felt that between the pratice manager and the concerns of the Treatment room nurse I had to follow this up by saying none of that practice is latex free so they are putting people at risk by not having one latex free room.
Also we are trying to get power of Attorney in place and they are dragging their heels in helping with this. I got a formal notification letter today from my Drs to tell me I’m taking up time with asking for dressings and admin matters. So I am being banned from helping my mum and banned from ordering my own. I feel I am being treated badly again because now people have been told about my stalker getting out all was okay until then. I feel I get blamed for being abused and attacked and for daring to have a madman after me.
This has brought be to a very hard decision I am willing now to speak with my stalker when he gets out and try to see what can be done to stop this. I have since been told that Tanya knows him and to me that makes sense. What do victims have to do to be treated well? Why can we not be protected in Scotland I have to get attacked again before I can be protected Welll I cannot allow that to happen so I will give him heat he wants and talk with him on my own.
Drs Hospitals and all of the people who are there to look after us should understand but unfortunately they do not so all my family suffers as people are still ignorant of how to help and treat victims. I get scared when people at a Drs or hospital shout at me it feels like I am being abused all over again .
For the last 30 Years I have been stalked by the same man David Williamson from Fife he then moved to Kelso and from there to England where because he threatened to blow up Harrods and othe major landmarks in London he also robbed a hotel in Hyde park then threatened the Money shop when they refused to change the stolen money he had a shotgun for that. He got ten years for terrorism in 2012 they are letting him out this year on 5.12.17. While in Jail in England he sent the Police to my house asking them to tell me to stop writing to him which of course I would never dream of doing as I am his victim. After an investigation My complaint against the Police was upheld.
This man as a judge in England said is very dangerous and I fear for my life and that of my 90 year old mum when this man gets out to cause havoc all over again. He has said many times that he will kill me and I believe he will try. Since the 90s he has held me at gun point as his hostage preformed sexual acts forcing me to watch. He has held me hostage with a knife again for 9 hours both times. Before that he attacked me by hitting my face then hitting my legs with a metal bar leaving me disabled. He has kicked me with steel toe cap shoes. And that is but a few things he has done to me.
His obsession with me has lasted all that time. In his head he thinks we have had a relationship I can say with absolute certainty that is not the case. He has convinced many people of this and is very good at lying. I know my life will never be free of him where ever I go he finds me. The Police have said they will keep a close eye on where he is in November but no one can watch him all of the time. I think that people who have this mindset or obsession on woman and Children need to be looked at all the time to make sure his next victim be it myself a child or an elderly person someone will get hurt they always do. No one can protect me unless he does something to me. I cannot get an order of protection unless he hurts me. I am glad there is a strong Stalking law in Scotland but not even that can protect me until he makes a move.
Things need to change this is 2017 but it feels like nothing has moved on yes new laws have come into force but to have to wait until people get hurt before they can help is not good enough nor is a man who is so very dangerous bring allowed out of jail after such a short time.
This last year has been a very difficult year for me as one year ago come 31.3.12 I lost my lovely stepfather whose support was constant throughout the years I have had this stalker. Since 2009 this man has been locked up for other crimes.
Last week I was told he will get out of jail on the 27.2.2012 I do not think anyone can imagine the fear that goes through me knowing this will all start again, my only consolation is that in Scotland there is now a Law against Stalking but the problem with that is not enough people are trained in how to handle or implement this new Law and that includes the police
The Year is now 2017 and things have come a long way since I first wrote this post go onto the link below to see the change.
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