I will start this a different way today. I am very upset at the way victims are treated both by hospital and by Drs Surgerys. I thought things were finally getting better here in Scotland and victims were going to be treated better but I was wrong. I am trying to do the very best I can do to help my 89 year old mother. On New Years Eve she fell and injured her leg requiring her to attend the Plastic Surgery Nurse Lead Clinc and was treated My Tanya a nurse who formally worked at a Drs Surgery as a treatment room nurse. I had attended most appointments with my mum then mum got transferred to our Drs Surgery nurse at the treatment room
. On our return to Plastic Surgery after a visit to our nurse we were told that the wrong dressings had been put on at the surgery and Tanya told me the name and size of dressings that were to be applied and asked me to order them from the G.P which is what I did. I had collected them gone out on my return they had been moved we could not find them. I phoned Tanya she said I had stolen them and not to attend my mums next appointment with her.
The bitch waited until an elderly lady was on her own and phoned Social Services on us who visited and had no concerns. Had she allowed me to attend I would have pointed out that the Drs treatment room nurse had dressed the leg on the Thursday by Friday night it had fallen off and I took her to A&E. That was why the dressing was different.
last week after me attending my Drs Surgery with my mum I have been told again not to attend with my mum as I make the nurse feel uneasy. Oh and because I have a latex allergies and there is latex in the room. I felt that between the pratice manager and the concerns of the Treatment room nurse I had to follow this up by saying none of that practice is latex free so they are putting people at risk by not having one latex free room.
Also we are trying to get power of Attorney in place and they are dragging their heels in helping with this. I got a formal notification letter today from my Drs to tell me I’m taking up time with asking for dressings and admin matters. So I am being banned from helping my mum and banned from ordering my own. I feel I am being treated badly again because now people have been told about my stalker getting out all was okay until then. I feel I get blamed for being abused and attacked and for daring to have a madman after me.
This has brought be to a very hard decision I am willing now to speak with my stalker when he gets out and try to see what can be done to stop this. I have since been told that Tanya knows him and to me that makes sense. What do victims have to do to be treated well? Why can we not be protected in Scotland I have to get attacked again before I can be protected Welll I cannot allow that to happen so I will give him heat he wants and talk with him on my own.
Drs Hospitals and all of the people who are there to look after us should understand but unfortunately they do not so all my family suffers as people are still ignorant of how to help and treat victims. I get scared when people at a Drs or hospital shout at me it feels like I am being abused all over again .